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homergreg
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A moderate's rant
2004-04-09 09:03:23 AM
I really thought I could help some people on the internet. I was a bit spooked the first week after PRK in my right eye, my vision was pretty much as horrible that week as the surgeon said it would be, but that didn't keep me from worrying. Found a site called SurgicalEyes, where I saw others posting last Fall with the same concerns, most of the people responding were quite comforting and reassuring. A few were a bit more radical, but I just took it that these people were really messed up permanently by their condition, and I guess that would tend to make someone radical. As I improved, I thought it might be helpful to hang around and repay the favor by posting comforting words to those who were early in their recovery, sharing that the vast majority had the same symptoms and fears but those usually went away, and show them that it was OK, and that people care. I had found so many sites where people were always so polarized and argumentative with each other, and SE seemed like a breath of fresh air. Then a few strange posts about "agendas" and "critics" started showing up, and then one had to register to even look at the site. Pretty soon the people posting comforting things to people were gone, many of the Doctors weren't posting nearly as much, and new posters with early concerns weren't posting, probably because they never bothered to register. Most of those who remained were those that were really, really injured, physically and emotionally by what they had been through. I really don't feel comfortable posting there much any more, the mood has changed, and what does a refractive surgery success have to offer them? I thought that there must be somewhere else that these people went, found dead board after dead board on the subject, until I checked out usenet, and found this place. For a little while it looked like a place to help, but it hasn't taken that long to figure out that helpfullness is not exactly the forte here. I do see some trying, but it's a dull hum below the roar of the people full of so much hate, vendetta, and/or agenda that most looking for that comforting voice are going elsewhere. DrG, I wish you luck around here, I don't see how you keep from losing it here. And although Minarik is a bit to take with his hyperbole and his very anti-RS stance, I really think that he cares about those who are hurt just as much as you do. Bye, I'm done with boards and sticking with reality. It's much more civil. - |
